16:1:49 Forum: Singles Dating Scam Reports
Scam Alert: PINAY4MARRIAGE
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PINAY4MARRIAGE has taken over $1,000 from a member of our site, in increments of $100 each, with promises of love and marriage. When it came time for them to meet, she could not be found.
Here is the story from a member who is in his late fifties.
"hello and god blessings to you all. The reason I am contacting you is because i had a bad and sad incident with one of the profile members, I got involved in a mail relationship with Jorell Mamac from the philippines, we got engaged and soon to see each other. She goes by the name "PINAY4MARRIAGE". During our relationship which was very good, I felt something was wrong but I continued the relationship. I sent her money many times cause she needed it. Money totalling about $1,000.00 I gladly sent it cause I was in love with her and she with me I thought.
When we put a date to see each other, she dissapeared, with no explanation. I called her several times with no luck. I was worried somthing bad had happened to her. I e-mailed many many times with no answer. I pray that she would be saved, the last time we talked we said we love each other and she was very excited finally she was going to see me.
After two weeks of trying to contact her I sadly gave up. Then when i could think clearly I put the pieces together, she only wanted me for my money and when we got engaged and set up a date to be married, there was no more money to be sent so she dropped me. I tried one last thing, and was to go back to christian singles to see if i could find her profile, and there she was with a different name, and while we were engaged to be married she was actively finding other men to do the same, and I wonder how many man she is writing at the same time to extort money from them.
It could be a good business if she is writing to several or even one at a time. I notice that she would ask for $100 at a time no less than that, I am very heart broken over this and I am trying to prevent other men from going through what I went through, thank you for your time."
I have checked her account and she is writing numerous other men in their fifties and sixties, one as old as 66 years old. She is 27 and a teacher to be.
She says to one:
"im glad to know that you had experiences with an asian woman before. my second bf was a caucasian and i met him on a dating site. unfortunately, things didnt work out between us because of HONESTY that really means a lot to me. regarding babies, well, youre right. its an issue we have to talk and think about. im a teacher by profession and i love kids. if my husband cant give me kids, its okay with me as long as i would be his baby. besides, im a teacher so i will be around with kids."[/b]
Take note that the man who has reported her is NOT Caucasian. She doesn't mention him at all as her boyfriend. Most scammers will indicate that they had a bad experience with honesty in the past and what you to be trustworthy. That gives a false sense that the scammer will be honest and you're the one to watch out for, and not them. But it seems all scammers seem to talk about trust issues and past hurts.
She has mailed 25 men on this site, but has only viewed 4 profiles. That is pretty odd as well.
She also sent this message:
"thanks for the reply. yes, i was able to read your profile and it seems that we have a big age gap. what do you think about it? regarding the distance thing, it wont bother me. if ever i God will direct me to the right person, i am willing to travel and relocate just to be with the person i love. how about you? have you ever been with an asian woman before? i hope to hear from you.
If you have sent her any money, please contact me with the details. I would like to know if she is in the process of scamming other men as well.
I am sorry this person was on our site and I pray constantly for our member's protection. It is so hard when you're on a Christian site because you think these people are Christians. The Romance Scam is the absolute worst one as it plays on your emotions and breaks your heart.
Please always be prayerful and careful.
*THIS IS THE LINK WHERE WE GOT THIS PROFILE*