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post Jul 28 2010, 10:00 AM
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I have or should I say had a relationship with this 43yo guy who were divorced 4years ago. He is a single dad of twins (from a Cebuana wife). & I have accepted everything about him. No issues or whatsoever…

He told me, he was betrayed by his ex wife for a Filipino and now engaged & when he had another relationship... This girl fooled her again.... (His past experiences)

I wanna ask if there were also SCAMMERS (guy scammer looking for a Filipina wife) in any LDR websites? Because if yes... Please wake me up!!!! (Make any comment/advices to my story...)

I met him thru networking sites and he is from NY, we chat, we use Yahoo messenger, and any other networking sites that we are connected. Calling, Texting and I also initiate to call him.

He told me he will be arriving on the 25th of July (NAIA Terminal 1 Flight CX*** thru Cathay Pacific). This is his first time in Manila, he knew Mactan Internatyinal Airport 'coz he 's been there and been to the PHilippines several time but not Manila... So my generosity strikes, wanted to surprise him:

1. Booked his Hotel (he doesnt have any idea)
2. Prepared the hotel with some rose petals & a cake that says "Welcome to Manila"

*** He’s been coming back & forth from NY to CEBU but not Manila. So this is supposedly his first trip here in Manila.


Come 25th, he dint arrive. Nobody showed up. But still waited in the car for like 2more hours, another batch of people came out from terminal 1 but still he was not there….

I hurriedly drove back to the hotel were he’s supposed to be staying for the rest of his escapades here in Manila and opened my laptop and emailed him right away. I told him that “I waited and Dint show up, Godbless.”

Honestly, I don’t feel mad at him (I just hate myself for loving and believing him). I am still waiting for him to explain or whatever it maybe… But I don’t wanna waste more time thinking about him if he doesn’t care anymore…

Disappointed, I may say…

Listen, I am a very calm person, I don’t like arguing with, but this is really uncalled for, he should’ve cared to call or inform me that he cant make it, as simple as 1-2-3 so ill understand… But he didn’t do it.

Until now I haven’t heard anything from him. I haven’t gotten any emails or text or calls. If I call his number, It syas it cant receive calls.. I dunno if he restrict receiving international calls or what?!

This is my very first time to meet and have an LDR, “very first on my experience” and this is what I got. I have been true to him and tried everything to make/put this to reality. I really love this guy but I think He dint care enough for me. I am praying that he is ok. I am worried on what happened to him… Really!

I bought his words. Maybe he is just too damn good with his words, and I am too gullible.


I post this just to share this experience of mine. What do you think happened to him?


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♫ Picture perfect memories♫ scattered all around the floor
Reachin' for the phone♫ 'cause I can't fight it anymore
And I ♫wonder if I ever cross your mind♫
For me it happens all the time♫

♫It's a quarter♫ after one, I'm all alone ♫and I need you now
Said I♫ wouldn't call ♫but I lost all control and I need you now
And I don't know how I can do without
I just need you now.. ♫ – Need you now by Lady Antebellum ♫
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post Aug 11 2010, 08:38 PM
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QUOTE (username @ Aug 11 2010, 01:47 PM) *
But...but....but....It is dying a natural death.

It is so far off base now on the original topic it ain't your thread now. It belongs to our monkey business today! laugh.gif


Exactly!

.... laugh.gif Are we all "monkeys" here? laugh.gif
Oopsss I'm annoying am I unsure.gif ...gotta run lol!


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post Aug 12 2010, 10:42 AM
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QUOTE (Gie88 @ Aug 11 2010, 04:38 PM) *
Exactly!

.... laugh.gif Are we all "monkeys" here? laugh.gif
Oopsss I'm annoying am I unsure.gif


Hey ...i'm the only annoying here as i have said but i'm not a monkey..i eat and like banana but i don't scratch my head.. laugh.gif ...i scratch my hand..symbolizing the entrance of money.... tongue.gif and humbly saying i'm prettier than a monkey... laugh.gif tongue.gif Exactly!

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post Aug 12 2010, 11:58 PM
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QUOTE (melody @ Aug 12 2010, 06:42 AM) *
Hey ...i'm the only annoying here as i have said but i'm not a monkey..i eat and like banana but i don't scratch my head.. laugh.gif ...i scratch my hand..symbolizing the entrance of money.... tongue.gif and humbly saying i'm prettier than a monkey... laugh.gif tongue.gif Exactly!



But you know.....you have a monkey!


My wife says I always talk slang! Hahaha
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post Aug 13 2010, 09:41 AM
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QUOTE (username @ Aug 12 2010, 07:58 PM) *
But you know.....you have a monkey!


My wife says I always talk slang! Hahaha


Here you are again my Shark!

This anima-lover doesn't hang out with only chicks but with monkeys as well.... tongue.gif laugh.gif






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post Aug 13 2010, 12:15 PM
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QUOTE (melody @ Aug 13 2010, 05:41 AM) *
Here you are again my Shark!

This anima-lover doesn't hang out with only chicks but with monkeys as well.... tongue.gif laugh.gif



My dear little Dolphin......

If you swim with lady chicks then a monkey is a given as well for each other.

And did you also know a monkey chick can be a dream come true to some boys?

Just be careful who you let to turn on your monkey button.
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post Aug 13 2010, 03:37 PM
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QUOTE (username @ Aug 13 2010, 08:15 AM) *
My dear little Dolphin......
Just be careful who you let to turn on your monkey button.


My dear big Shark...


Stop..look..and listen

Ooppss just be careful.............
Dream come true.......





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post Aug 13 2010, 03:49 PM
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QUOTE (melody @ Aug 13 2010, 11:37 AM) *
My dear big Shark...


Stop..look..and listen

Ooppss just be careful.............
Dream come true.......



I will be careful. I don't want to get my monkey spanked today.
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- TalkTalk   ♣ I dunno what happened to him...♣   Jul 28 2010, 10:00 AM
- - Mylo   Time and time again and yes will continue to tell ...   Jul 28 2010, 11:07 AM
- - soulwinner-marissa   maybe he's not real at all.* I saw a redflag i...   Jul 28 2010, 12:01 PM
- - MrkGrismer   You are lucky in that he did not 'scam' yo...   Jul 28 2010, 12:39 PM
- - cfrazer   It makes me sad to read that especially seeing all...   Jul 28 2010, 03:04 PM
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|- - TalkTalk   QUOTE (adobo @ Jul 29 2010, 08:53 AM) whe...   Jul 29 2010, 08:23 AM
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