Jul 28 2010, 10:00 AM
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I have or should I say had a relationship with this 43yo guy who were divorced 4years ago. He is a single dad of twins (from a Cebuana wife). & I have accepted everything about him. No issues or whatsoever… He told me, he was betrayed by his ex wife for a Filipino and now engaged & when he had another relationship... This girl fooled her again.... (His past experiences) I wanna ask if there were also SCAMMERS (guy scammer looking for a Filipina wife) in any LDR websites? Because if yes... Please wake me up!!!! (Make any comment/advices to my story...) I met him thru networking sites and he is from NY, we chat, we use Yahoo messenger, and any other networking sites that we are connected. Calling, Texting and I also initiate to call him. He told me he will be arriving on the 25th of July (NAIA Terminal 1 Flight CX*** thru Cathay Pacific). This is his first time in Manila, he knew Mactan Internatyinal Airport 'coz he 's been there and been to the PHilippines several time but not Manila... So my generosity strikes, wanted to surprise him: 1. Booked his Hotel (he doesnt have any idea) 2. Prepared the hotel with some rose petals & a cake that says "Welcome to Manila" *** He’s been coming back & forth from NY to CEBU but not Manila. So this is supposedly his first trip here in Manila. Come 25th, he dint arrive. Nobody showed up. But still waited in the car for like 2more hours, another batch of people came out from terminal 1 but still he was not there…. I hurriedly drove back to the hotel were he’s supposed to be staying for the rest of his escapades here in Manila and opened my laptop and emailed him right away. I told him that “I waited and Dint show up, Godbless.” Honestly, I don’t feel mad at him (I just hate myself for loving and believing him). I am still waiting for him to explain or whatever it maybe… But I don’t wanna waste more time thinking about him if he doesn’t care anymore… Disappointed, I may say… Listen, I am a very calm person, I don’t like arguing with, but this is really uncalled for, he should’ve cared to call or inform me that he cant make it, as simple as 1-2-3 so ill understand… But he didn’t do it. Until now I haven’t heard anything from him. I haven’t gotten any emails or text or calls. If I call his number, It syas it cant receive calls.. I dunno if he restrict receiving international calls or what?! This is my very first time to meet and have an LDR, “very first on my experience” and this is what I got. I have been true to him and tried everything to make/put this to reality. I really love this guy but I think He dint care enough for me. I am praying that he is ok. I am worried on what happened to him… Really! I bought his words. Maybe he is just too damn good with his words, and I am too gullible. I post this just to share this experience of mine. What do you think happened to him? -------------------- ♫ Picture perfect memories♫ scattered all around the floor
Reachin' for the phone♫ 'cause I can't fight it anymore And I ♫wonder if I ever cross your mind♫ For me it happens all the time♫ ♫It's a quarter♫ after one, I'm all alone ♫and I need you now Said I♫ wouldn't call ♫but I lost all control and I need you now And I don't know how I can do without I just need you now.. ♫ – Need you now by Lady Antebellum ♫ |
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Aug 11 2010, 08:38 PM
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But...but....but....It is dying a natural death. It is so far off base now on the original topic it ain't your thread now. It belongs to our monkey business today! Exactly! .... Oopsss I'm annoying am I -------------------- "I don't stand for the black man's side, I don't stand for the white man's side. I stand for God's side." --Bob Marley
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Aug 12 2010, 10:42 AM
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Exactly! .... Oopsss I'm annoying am I Hey ...i'm the only annoying here as i have said but i'm not a monkey..i eat and like banana but i don't scratch my head.. This post has been edited by melody: Aug 12 2010, 01:39 PM -------------------- |
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Aug 12 2010, 11:58 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 1,635 Joined: 31-October 06 From: Earth Member No.: 962 Visa type: K-1 Texas Service Center Local Office: Had to use snail mail |
Hey ...i'm the only annoying here as i have said but i'm not a monkey..i eat and like banana but i don't scratch my head.. But you know.....you have a monkey! My wife says I always talk slang! Hahaha |
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Aug 13 2010, 09:41 AM
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But you know.....you have a monkey! My wife says I always talk slang! Hahaha Here you are again my Shark! This anima-lover doesn't hang out with only chicks but with monkeys as well.... -------------------- |
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Aug 13 2010, 12:15 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 1,635 Joined: 31-October 06 From: Earth Member No.: 962 Visa type: K-1 Texas Service Center Local Office: Had to use snail mail |
Here you are again my Shark! This anima-lover doesn't hang out with only chicks but with monkeys as well.... My dear little Dolphin...... If you swim with lady chicks then a monkey is a given as well for each other. And did you also know a monkey chick can be a dream come true to some boys? Just be careful who you let to turn on your monkey button. |
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Aug 13 2010, 03:37 PM
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My dear little Dolphin...... Just be careful who you let to turn on your monkey button. My dear big Shark... Stop..look..and listenDream come true....... ![]() -------------------- |
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Aug 13 2010, 03:49 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 1,635 Joined: 31-October 06 From: Earth Member No.: 962 Visa type: K-1 Texas Service Center Local Office: Had to use snail mail |
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TalkTalk ♣ I dunno what happened to him...♣ Jul 28 2010, 10:00 AM
Mylo Time and time again and yes will continue to tell ... Jul 28 2010, 11:07 AM
soulwinner-marissa maybe he's not real at all.* I saw a redflag i... Jul 28 2010, 12:01 PM
MrkGrismer You are lucky in that he did not 'scam' yo... Jul 28 2010, 12:39 PM
cfrazer It makes me sad to read that especially seeing all... Jul 28 2010, 03:04 PM
James in Austin Tx I am so sorry that this happened to you as you did... Jul 28 2010, 03:19 PM
Liwayway I don't know how to appropriately express my r... Jul 28 2010, 04:53 PM
fendergirl Drop him, you deserve a much better person. What a... Jul 28 2010, 08:20 PM
TalkTalk @Mylo :
Oh yes, he did send his itinerary. I even... Jul 29 2010, 05:43 AM
zzzlpr QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 29 2010, 01:43 AM) ... Jul 29 2010, 11:25 AM
TalkTalk QUOTE (zzzlpr @ Jul 29 2010, 12:25 PM) So... Jul 30 2010, 02:53 AM
zzzlpr QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 29 2010, 10:53 PM) ... Jul 30 2010, 12:58 PM
adobo QUOTE (zzzlpr @ Jul 30 2010, 01:58 PM) At... Jul 30 2010, 06:51 PM
MrkGrismer QUOTE (adobo @ Jul 30 2010, 02:51 PM) if ... Jul 30 2010, 08:35 PM
zzzlpr QUOTE (adobo @ Jul 30 2010, 02:51 PM) if ... Jul 30 2010, 11:31 PM
Liwayway QUOTE (adobo @ Jul 30 2010, 06:51 PM) if ... Jul 31 2010, 03:46 AM
melody QUOTE (adobo @ Jul 30 2010, 02:51 PM) if ... Jul 31 2010, 01:51 PM
adobo when you book online. they give you your itinerary... Jul 29 2010, 07:53 AM
TalkTalk QUOTE (adobo @ Jul 29 2010, 08:53 AM) whe... Jul 29 2010, 08:23 AM
adobo when you forward your ticket info.
it has flight n... Jul 29 2010, 08:58 AM
TalkTalk Hi again...
Yeah right.
You are really right...
... Jul 29 2010, 09:41 AM
MrkGrismer If he forwarded his itenerary and you checked the ... Jul 29 2010, 12:41 PM
zzzlpr QUOTE (MrkGrismer @ Jul 29 2010, 08:41 AM... Jul 29 2010, 01:16 PM
adobo QUOTE (MrkGrismer @ Jul 29 2010, 12:41 PM... Jul 29 2010, 05:24 PM

TalkTalk QUOTE (adobo @ Jul 29 2010, 06:24 PM) if ... Jul 30 2010, 03:21 AM

MrkGrismer QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 29 2010, 11:21 PM) ... Jul 30 2010, 12:53 PM
TalkTalk QUOTE (MrkGrismer @ Jul 29 2010, 01:41 PM... Jul 30 2010, 02:58 AM
adobo QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 30 2010, 02:58 AM) ... Jul 30 2010, 09:01 AM
melody To add mine............
Sounds hard to understand... Jul 29 2010, 01:15 PM
TalkTalk QUOTE (melody @ Jul 29 2010, 02:15 PM) To... Jul 30 2010, 03:08 AM
melody QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 29 2010, 11:08 PM) ... Jul 30 2010, 03:40 PM
TalkTalk Guys, I really tried contacting the airline reserv... Jul 31 2010, 03:54 AM
adobo QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 31 2010, 03:54 AM) ... Jul 31 2010, 06:46 AM
HAWK QUOTE (adobo @ Jul 31 2010, 01:46 AM) i h... Jul 31 2010, 07:26 AM
adobo QUOTE (HAWK @ Jul 31 2010, 08:26 AM) I th... Jul 31 2010, 07:29 AM
rcars3 QUOTE (HAWK @ Jul 31 2010, 01:26 AM) I th... Jul 31 2010, 11:55 AM
adobo QUOTE (rcars3 @ Jul 31 2010, 12:55 PM) di... Jul 31 2010, 05:19 PM
HAWK Guys scam girls just as much as the girls scam the... Jul 31 2010, 05:07 AM
adobo QUOTE (HAWK @ Jul 31 2010, 06:07 AM) Guys... Jul 31 2010, 06:17 AM

melody QUOTE (adobo @ Jul 31 2010, 02:17 AM) i b... Jul 31 2010, 01:41 PM
TalkTalk I am a bit lost here...
Whom you have spoken wit... Jul 31 2010, 06:24 AM

Liwayway QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 31 2010, 07:24 AM) ... Jul 31 2010, 06:27 AM

Fritz QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 30 2010, 11:24 PM) ... Jul 31 2010, 06:39 AM
James in Austin Tx For jerks like that we all ought to call them and ... Jul 31 2010, 01:32 PM
adobo QUOTE (James in Austin Tx @ Jul 31 2010, 01... Jul 31 2010, 05:33 PM
TalkTalk Hi sexy
hehehehehhehehe I was lost when i read... Jul 31 2010, 06:31 AM
Liwayway QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 31 2010, 07:31 AM) ... Jul 31 2010, 06:42 AM
melody QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 31 2010, 02:31 AM) ... Jul 31 2010, 09:34 AM
TalkTalk ARE you serious?! You are thinking that this i... Jul 31 2010, 07:32 AM
adobo QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 31 2010, 08:32 AM) ... Jul 31 2010, 07:38 AM
super55 QUOTE (adobo @ Jul 31 2010, 08:38 AM) i s... Aug 4 2010, 06:19 AM
Fritz Oops ... was that the reservations line or his lin... Jul 31 2010, 08:16 AM
TalkTalk QUOTE (Fritz @ Jul 31 2010, 09:16 AM) Oop... Jul 31 2010, 08:56 AM
Lerlyn He might be one of those "Locked up Abroad... Jul 31 2010, 04:48 PM
adobo QUOTE (Lerlyn @ Jul 31 2010, 04:48 PM) He... Jul 31 2010, 05:23 PM
jerphy hi there! sorry for what happened.. But i know... Aug 1 2010, 02:29 AM
adobo ♣ I dunno what happened to him...♣, Wh... Aug 1 2010, 05:24 AM
TalkTalk Hello everyone.
Got a text message from him and ... Aug 3 2010, 02:55 AM
Fritz QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Aug 2 2010, 07:55 PM)
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TalkTalk QUOTE (Fritz @ Aug 3 2010, 04:19 AM) Join... Aug 3 2010, 03:34 AM
Fritz Will be a little while yet before I can take you u... Aug 3 2010, 04:25 AM
asianstreak QUOTE (Fritz @ Aug 3 2010, 04:25 AM) Luck... Aug 11 2010, 02:58 PM
TalkTalk Good Morning everyone,
Its past nine in the morn... Aug 4 2010, 01:14 AM
beeguy QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Aug 3 2010, 08:14 PM)
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adobo QUOTE (beeguy @ Aug 4 2010, 01:20 AM) No ... Aug 4 2010, 10:06 AM

melody QUOTE (adobo @ Aug 4 2010, 06:06 AM) the ... Aug 4 2010, 11:28 AM
MrkGrismer QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Aug 3 2010, 09:14 PM)
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Mel I agree with your ex bf. YOU CAN DO BETTER!... Aug 4 2010, 02:07 AM
Gie88 QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 28 2010, 06:00 AM) ... Aug 4 2010, 02:54 AM
TalkTalk Hi Gie88
How are you?
QUOTE (Gie88 @ Aug 4... Aug 4 2010, 04:27 AM
Liwayway "I just wonder why would you call it a ... Aug 4 2010, 05:50 AM
Gie88 QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Aug 4 2010, 12:27 AM) H... Aug 4 2010, 02:57 PM
adobo Hi Gie88
do i detect some scrutiny here.
i... Aug 5 2010, 06:56 AM
TalkTalk God bless @adobo Aug 5 2010, 07:47 AM
Dr. Manhattan This topic has reached it's singularity. Aug 6 2010, 07:56 AM
HAWK Number 3 seems to be the only time he has told the... Aug 8 2010, 04:34 AM
TalkTalk and number FOUR.
IM NOT AFFECTED ANYMORE...
So ... Aug 11 2010, 02:08 AM
Fritz QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Aug 10 2010, 07:08 PM) ... Aug 11 2010, 02:56 AM
Liwayway QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Aug 11 2010, 03:08 AM) ... Aug 11 2010, 03:18 PM

username QUOTE (Liwayway @ Aug 11 2010, 11:18 AM) ... Aug 11 2010, 05:47 PM

beeguy QUOTE (username @ Aug 11 2010, 12:47 PM) ... Aug 11 2010, 05:48 PM
HAWK QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Aug 10 2010, 09:08 PM) ... Aug 11 2010, 06:05 PM
Gie88 QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Aug 10 2010, 10:08 PM) ... Aug 11 2010, 04:36 AM
username Monkey see - Monkey do
http://www.youtube.com/w... Aug 11 2010, 03:05 PM
melody RE: ♣ I dunno what happened to him...♣ Aug 11 2010, 03:17 PM
Gie88 QUOTE (username @ Aug 11 2010, 11:05 AM) ... Aug 11 2010, 05:24 PM
beeguy QUOTE (TalkTalk @ Jul 28 2010, 05:00 AM) ... Aug 11 2010, 05:56 PM
username QUOTE (beeguy @ Aug 11 2010, 01:56 PM) I ... Aug 11 2010, 06:07 PM
Fritz QUOTE (username @ Aug 11 2010, 11:07 AM) ... Aug 12 2010, 12:18 AM
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