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#1 Felicity

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Posted 30 December 2006 - 10:52 AM

just want to share my story...

i am into internet dating since i first worked in school. I was a computer teacher so i got an access to the internet world. i was able to explore the net, even registered to any dating sites...i learned patience is very important. Met guys on net but wasnt able to meet the real one...til then.

FYI, i only had 2 men in my life as i went on dating the internet...my first internet boyfriend, i met him september 2004 ans our relationship lasted in december, 2005...due to unexpected reasons smile.gif we met personally...and found out, he was nt really meant for me,my mom didnt like him much either because of his vices...but have loved him...i knew that he was doing kinky things on net, he didnt know that,, cos i researched about him. i am too patient in investigating on the guy i met...that's very important. we came from 2 different worlds and we were strangers.just met on net and the cam just served as our idea of ourselves.we expressed love to each other but there was this "thing" about him that i had sensed that he got a lot of secrets. ...i decided to let go and told him everything i knew bout him.i thought i could change him, but i failed..he accepted that we cant be together.

the second and the guy i love most is my fiance smile.gif oh boy, he's the luckiest and i became the luckiest too since i met him!imagine, for the first time in my life, i won a computer set, in an electroni raffle draw in school...my first and my last hehe

his profile attracted me much, he wanted to have someone who can stay with him the rest of his life...he's a responsible guy.he got a work...so i researched about him and found out that he s telling the truth...he's not keeping secrets from me...i met his family smile.gif

tip, u may search on his name on the net, u may find important information about him...if ur using yahoo chat, u may search his/her ID...

even though i have known that he's not only talking to me, i have been honest to him, giving my best to show im real and i really care...he has been honest to me too. he got friends on net but he only showed himself to one person that is ME! He has chosen me among the rest cos he told me, i was consistent, honest and never took advantage on him even if he kept on insisting on giving money as his gifts...i wont accept money from him , he just told me that it was his valentine's gift...got no choice, u need to appreciate a guy's gift...he was happy i accepted it...i remember his first gift...that was a cell phone, he sent me money to buy one, he didnt like the audio of my phone so i accepted his offer rather than letting himself to stop calling me...now, that we r almost a year, it s important for him to make me comfortable with life, so i appreciate that, i understand when he wants me to send money and i just gladly accept it, using it wisely smile.gif but until now, i am still shy in asking :)but for love? i am asking his greatest LOVE that he gratefully shares it to me!

it pays to be honest and be real..never take advantage..keep the idea of asking money from him away, it doesnt sound nice...hate it when someone tells about how bad Filipinas are, HEY great filipinas are still here. We are the real Pinays, God-fearing and very romantic...

i believe in Karma that's why i have my genuine intention in looking for my guy the very first and i am very grateful for GOD has led me to Franko, He let His angels brought my Franko to me...


i love you honey

happy new year to all!ooopsss wish i have posted it right...in this section hehe unsure.gif

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Posted 30 December 2006 - 06:58 PM

hi:) thats wonderful.. congratulations for finding the right one for you but romance didnt stopped in just finding our mate sis... it will take patience and love with trust and fedelity to make it grow..

communication is always the key too.. yep right, honesty should always be there... and when youre with your hubby in another country, the adjustment begin.. as a wife we needed to know where we stand in the relationship:) i always keep in mind that the husband is the head of the family, coz there will be times when two cultures being threwn together will collide.. no more childish action (sometimes i do it but im trying to correct it)

yep right , money is always the root of argument etc... we should always remember that guys from america or anywhere in the world didnt have a money tree in their backyard but they work soo hard for the paycheck for they have to pay the bills, support us and take good care of everything.. (specially during the time we cant work yet or while we were stil in the philippines and he wanted to send some money for you)..also to save for their trip to see their fiancee in the philippines...

time and distance will test your relationship sis.. keep your love for each other grow everyday and that will help you guys to stand thru all the trials and struggles you both will encounter..

i hope id been able to share you something.. take care and congratulations sis.. and welcome here sa america soon... happy new year to you...




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#3 Felicity

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Posted 31 December 2006 - 06:25 AM

thanks ill bare in mind everything u said...even we always communicate, watch ourselves sleep hehe talked on phone for hours, it helped us knew each other well...

best of luck to all of us...and happy new year!!!!

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 04:11 PM

Hello all,
I have recently met a very wonderful woman who I adore. I have been very skeptical of internet dating but I did have a friend who met his wife online and it worked out very good for them. It seems we chat for about 3 hours a day through yahoo messenger and webcam. I just think for me this is a new change and I really want to make this work. Any suggestions and the LDR thing ? I have some other questions but thats for another place on here I think.
Thanks in Advance
Ethan

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Posted 16 May 2008 - 03:53 AM

just keep on communicating with her and see where it leads to. If u think she really is the one ur looking for, meet her in person. Then ull learn more about her.

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