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#61 Judah101

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Posted 17 May 2010 - 02:51 AM

QUOTE (soniamull @ May 16 2010, 04:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You think I am a racist and prejudicial? So what do you call yourself then?
You seem to belong to KKK group. I just don't know if you're from 1st 2nd or 3rd.

For your information also, I don't have anything against Americans. I love the people, the places, the culture and its diversity.
If I call receiving receiving monthly food stamps and remaining to be a burden to the government for long no valid reasons is LAZINESS.... That is not racism or prejudice! Such laziness deserves censure.
But you calling unwed Filipinas with children as SLUTS is pretty intense.

i will admit slut is a strong word. you should be upset if i called any unwed mother a slut.
why just filipinas. dont other women matter.
but you did say locals on food stamps and us immigrants are hard working.
you sound more like a separatist than me.
if you are truly american and see your self as one, you would have said, we americans.
when people say why are blacks killing each other, i come back and say, why are americans killing each other. who gives a hoot what color they are.

when the shooting at Columbine happen, i didnt say, look at those white kids killing each other.
or look at that asian who shot up the college. i thought, what is happening to americans.
how can we improve and get better.

and dont try to use the KKK race card thing on me. thats so 80s.
i lived all around the world went thru 3 passports,and have friends of all nations. not from the backwoods. use that one on some liberal.

you have to get past that race, color, national thing. we are all children of god.

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Posted 17 May 2010 - 03:33 AM

QUOTE (Judah101 @ May 16 2010, 09:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i know what you mean, slut may be a strong word.
but i can judge people by there actions.
if some one molested kids, would you not judge him for his actions.
the courts do it everyday. wink.gif


You are entitled to your opinion. Yup, calling some mothers a slut is extremely erroneous for me. Though I do not have a kid before my marriage but I have good friends who do. They work hard to provide the needs for their children because nobody will lend a hand to them. I salute them for their hard work. I did not say that it's not their fault, they love and trust the wrong person but it is the "Fall" that made them rise again and made them a better person….We are not all perfect, I am not nor you. I can be inconsiderate too when giving my opinions, believe me, I hurt people for sometimes I can be so vocal and just say whatever I wanted to say, I am hurt so I made sure I hurt them too..Then afterward I regret everything. But you know what? I realized that who am I judging someone? In the eyes of the Lord, we are all equal. Everybody’s beautiful. After all, this world that we are all living is just temporary, we all need to work for our eternity.…God loves you!




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Posted 17 May 2010 - 03:45 AM

Judah101: "There was a guy that had that same type of thinking. i think his name was hitler.
evolve woman, evolve. we really dont need more of your kind here in the states.
you would take us back 50 years."
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Being Jewish, I consider your reference to Hitler in this or any other context, just to try to score a point, sick and disgusting. I could care less how many passports U have been through, how long U lived in PI or elsewhere, how many women U have scored with, or any other bragging bs U choose to try to impress everyone here with. I think your open contempt of any women with child/children, who found love in a follow-up relationship to be contemptible, and U directly (and apparently deliberately) have insulted many of the women on this site, and their husbands. I also think your throwing in a reference to black women who have kids to be racist. All-in-all, U sound like the type of person DHS would need to call in additional support to safely clean your HAZMAT mouth.

Having said all that, welcome to WOF!! It has been very boring here lately - until U, anyhow. lolol

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Posted 17 May 2010 - 03:53 AM

QUOTE (denterprise @ Aug 23 2006, 02:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It really comes down to each individual case. Anyone can make a mistake, but they should learn from it and not repeat it. There may be some fantastic women with more than one child but if she was not married that would have to speak to her values or her decision making skills.

You have to decide what it is you want in a woman no matter were she is from. Don't get caught up in the mystique of a certain culture. There are those that have it and those that are good at pretending they have it, and it does not matter if they have children or not. I know Filipinas in the states that have no children and are the most immoral women you would ever meet. I also know of a few that have children from a previous relationship and could not be sweeter.

They are people just like anyone else with the same weaknesses. The only difference is their culture as a whole has not been infected like ours has. So that is why it is easier to find that traditional woman in the PI than here in the states. If you are interested in a woman with more than one child you have to figure out if she has been influenced by the negative culture we are running from.

If I were you I would pose this same question to any woman you meet, especially if she has a child or more than one. Give them a chance to explain their situation. Somehow the truth has a certain ring to it, and if she is lying you seem to be good at picking up on it.

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Posted 17 May 2010 - 04:54 AM

QUOTE (Mel @ May 16 2010, 05:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Judah101: "There was a guy that had that same type of thinking. i think his name was hitler.
evolve woman, evolve. we really dont need more of your kind here in the states.
you would take us back 50 years."


Being Jewish, I consider your reference to Hitler in this or any other context, just to try to score a point, sick and disgusting. I could care less how many passports U have been through, how long U lived in PI or elsewhere, how many women U have scored with, or any other bragging bs U choose to try to impress everyone here with. I think your open contempt of any women with child/children, who found love in a follow-up relationship to be contemptible, and U directly (and apparently deliberately) have insulted many of the women on this site, and their husbands. I also think your throwing in a reference to black women who have kids to be racist. All-in-all, U sound like the type of person DHS would need to call in additional support to safely clean your HAZMAT mouth.

Having said all that, welcome to WOF!! It has been very boring here lately - until U, anyhow. lolol

mel, dont hit me with the anti semitism one.
how do you know i am not jewish.
for one my grandfather shed blood on the beaches of normandy to put a end to nazism.
so you hold no copyright on hitler.
why cant you guys come with a rational inteligent argument if you dont like what i say.
instead you use the race card and now the anti semit one.
you are where you are, because of the choices you made in life mel.
not because of racism. thru hard work and due diligence, you can get where you want to be.
but it wont start by you using the race card, and being a victim. i got there and so can you mel.

i think it is low and disturbing that you would use the plight of the jewish people in a argument to defend yourself. i think that is shameless, and you say you are jewish.
gives me pause.

this is the year 2010, hitler is long dead, slavery is over, women have the right to vote, and we have a black president. so get over the mr. victim mentality, "i can only use the race card when i cant win an argument."
i know we can do better than that.

the reason i said black women with kids, is because thats what you hear on the news.
unwed black mothers.
like when they mention illegal immigration, they mostly refer to mexicans.
i was pointing out how people have bias when it comes to certain groups or there own. plus you dont know if i am black myself. hell i could be a unwed mother for all you know. takes one to know one, right laugh.gif
to quick to yell racism in crowded nation.

the reason i mention my travel log, is because if you have not been to and smelt a place.
you have no ideal what that county is about.
most guys think they know the phills cause they have a girlfriend on the net, and read blogs.
give me a break.

whens the last time you been to israel mel?...... i have.
have you been to Auschwitz and stood there in silence... huh mel? i have.
visit the graves of our soldiers in france...didnt think so mel.

so dont dare accuse me of anti semitism.

Edited by Judah101, 17 May 2010 - 05:15 AM.


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Posted 17 May 2010 - 05:30 AM

QUOTE (Judah101 @ May 16 2010, 09:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
mel, dont hit me with the anti semitism one.
how do you know i am not jewish.
for one my grandfather shed blood on the beaches of normandy to put a end to nazism.
so you hold no copyright on hitler.
why cant you guys come with a rational inteligent argument if you dont like what i say.
instead you use the race card and now the anti semit one.

i think it is low and disturbing that you would use the plight of the jewish people in a argument to defend yourself. i think that is shameless, and you say you are jewish.
gives me pause.

this is the year 2010, hitler is long dead, slavery is over, women have the right to vote, and we have a black president. so get over the mr. victim mentality, "i can only use the race card when i cant win an argument."
i know we can do better than that.

the reason i said black women with kids, is because thats what you hear on the news.
unwed black mothers.
like when they mention illegal immigration, they mostly refer to mexicans.
i was pointing out how people have bias when it comes to certain groups or there own. plus you dont know if i am black myself. hell i could be a unwed mother for all you know. takes one to know one, right laugh.gif
to quick to yell racism in crowded nation.

the reason i mention my travel log, is because if you have not been to and smelt a place.
you have no ideal what that county is about.
most guys think they know the phills cause they have a girlfriend on the net, and read blogs.
give me a break.

whens the last time you been to israel mel?...... i have.
have you been to Auschwitz and stood there in silence... huh mel? i have.
visit the graves of or soldiers in france...didnt think so mel.

so dont dare accuse me of anti semitism.

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Given your posts in this thread I think you would prefer to post at BNN. Insults thrown at random are not appreciated here. Scolding those you insult because they tell you they are upset is not appreciated here. Posting messages that appear to be designed to draw angry responses is not wanted here.

This forum is a gathering place for men and women, from all over the world who wish to discuss Fil-West relationships. Insulting comments from a self described whore who proudly admits to sleeping around do not belong on this forum.

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Posted 17 May 2010 - 05:41 AM

QUOTE (Fritz @ May 17 2010, 01:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Judah

Apparently you are not understanding the replies from the members you are insulting. Telling us that you are a male whore will not increase your standing on this forum nor will it excuse your inflammatory rhetoric. Telling us that you are a globetrotter does not excuse the insults you throw out. Telling us that we do not know you does not change the nature of your remarks in any way.

Given your posts in this thread I think you would prefer to post at BNN. Insults thrown at random are not appreciated here. Scolding those you insult because they tell you they are upset is not appreciated here. Posting messages that appear to be designed to draw angry responses is not wanted here.

This forum is a gathering place for men and women, from all over the world who wish to discuss Fil-West relationships. Insulting comments from a self described whore who proudly admits to sleeping around do not belong on this forum.

Thank you for your cooperation and polite participation in discussions concerning immigration and actual marital relationships. Not the extreme bigotry based on your bar hopping adventures that you seem to believe will be of interest here. This post will be your third warning, so you will have a week to decide if you wish to join this community or move on with your life elsewhere.

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Fritz, thank you for your excellent post. Your taking firm action stopped me from responding in kind to this "male whore" (nice one, that - lol). Using the kind of response that was so richly deserved would have got me in trouble too, I guess. rolleyes.gif laugh.gif Seriously, thank U and the other 2 moderators who issued timely warnings, and helped the newly set up system show it can and does work.

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Posted 17 May 2010 - 06:05 AM

QUOTE (Fritz @ May 16 2010, 07:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Judah

Apparently you are not understanding the replies from the members you are insulting. Telling us that you are a male whore will not increase your standing on this forum nor will it excuse your inflammatory rhetoric. Telling us that you are a globetrotter does not excuse the insults you throw out. Telling us that we do not know you does not change the nature of your remarks in any way.

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This forum is a gathering place for men and women, from all over the world who wish to discuss Fil-West relationships. Insulting comments from a self described whore who proudly admits to sleeping around do not belong on this forum.

Thank you for your cooperation and polite participation in discussions concerning immigration and actual marital relationships. Not the extreme bigotry based on your bar hopping adventures that you seem to believe will be of interest here. This post will be your third warning, so you will have a week to decide if you wish to join this community or move on with your life elsewhere.

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i think you are being one sided.
once i got that warning i did not mention anything about sleeping around.
the responses i got have been low brow and flaming.
i have been called racist, whimps and the like.
i have not named called, because i can hold a conversation without going to that low of a level.
i am sure these guys are big boys and can handle a view different than theirs.
no worries, this is not my thread anyway. though i would give my .002 biggrin.gif
i will leave this thread for you guys to just agree with each other.
all women from the phills are great and we should bow down and kiss their feet.
how boring that is.

Edited by Judah101, 17 May 2010 - 06:11 AM.


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Posted 17 May 2010 - 07:01 AM

QUOTE (Judah101 @ May 17 2010, 07:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i think you are being one sided.
once i got that warning i did not mention anything about sleeping around.
the responses i got have been low brow and flaming.
i have been called racist, whimps and the like.
i have not named called, because i can hold a conversation without going to that low of a level.
i am sure these guys are big boys and can handle a view different than theirs.
no worries, this is not my thread anyway. though i would give my .002 biggrin.gif
i will leave this thread for you guys to just agree with each other.
all women from the phills are great and we should bow down and kiss their feet.
how boring that is.

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Posted 17 May 2010 - 12:53 PM

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Posted 17 May 2010 - 02:31 PM

QUOTE (Judah101 @ May 16 2010, 03:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
why would you go half way around the world to get what you can get here in the states.
plenty of women with baby's daddies in your local neighborhood.

a woman that is unmarried and has kids in the phils is off the rails, unless if she was raped.
there are to many good girls in the phils, to just settle for seconds or thirds.
many of the girls that i knew in the phils that had kids and not married, worked in the bars.

makes me wonder why any man would even consider such a thing. huh.gif




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Posted 17 May 2010 - 11:36 PM

QUOTE (Judah101 @ May 16 2010, 07:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
why would you go half way around the world to get what you can get here in the states.
plenty of women with baby's daddies in your local neighborhood.

a woman that is unmarried and has kids in the phils is off the rails, unless if she was raped.
there are to many good girls in the phils, to just settle for seconds or thirds.
many of the girls that i knew in the phils that had kids and not married, worked in the bars.

makes me wonder why any man would even consider such a thing. huh.gif

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lolz!!! how long have u been living in the Phil. that u say so that thing...??? just wondering.. oh i think u cant reply coz u are suspended for a wk. wink.gif wink.gif

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Posted 18 May 2010 - 12:50 AM

QUOTE (Carrisse @ Aug 23 2006, 03:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
In some ways I am traditional.

But have you guys ever stopped and think about the hard work being a stay at home Mom? You think she is having fun cleaning the floor, washing your underwear, chauffering your kids all day and slaving over the stove to feed you and your spawn?

What have you done for her lately? Have you bought her flowers, took over some chores so she can do her nails, maybe bathe the kids and put them to bed so she can watch her favorite shows? Or did you instead grumble about the burnt macaroni and cheese and parked your butt on the couch and ignored her all night?

You want a traditional wife then you should do your part to be the perfect husband. Act like she is still the most beautiful woman in the world for you.

The high ratio of divorce is not because women want to have fun. They are tired of being taken for granted and under appreciated.




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Posted 18 May 2010 - 02:28 AM

QUOTE (Carrisse @ Aug 23 2006, 10:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
In some ways I am traditional.

But have you guys ever stopped and think about the hard work being a stay at home Mom? You think she is having fun cleaning the floor, washing your underwear, chauffering your kids all day and slaving over the stove to feed you and your spawn?

What have you done for her lately? Have you bought her flowers, took over some chores so she can do her nails, maybe bathe the kids and put them to bed so she can watch her favorite shows? Or did you instead grumble about the burnt macaroni and cheese and parked your butt on the couch and ignored her all night?

You want a traditional wife then you should do your part to be the perfect husband. Act like she is still the most beautiful woman in the world for you.

The high ratio of divorce is not because women want to have fun. They are tired of being taken for granted and under appreciated.



I do agree with you, well said!


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Posted 18 May 2010 - 03:02 AM

QUOTE (Carrisse @ Aug 23 2006, 10:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
In some ways I am traditional.

But have you guys ever stopped and think about the hard work being a stay at home Mom? You think she is having fun cleaning the floor, washing your underwear, chauffering your kids all day and slaving over the stove to feed you and your spawn?

What have you done for her lately? Have you bought her flowers, took over some chores so she can do her nails, maybe bathe the kids and put them to bed so she can watch her favorite shows? Or did you instead grumble about the burnt macaroni and cheese and parked your butt on the couch and ignored her all night?

You want a traditional wife then you should do your part to be the perfect husband. Act like she is still the most beautiful woman in the world for you.

The high ratio of divorce is not because women want to have fun. They are tired of being taken for granted and under appreciated.

dont think sooo... if soo then why we filipinas looking for puti to marry...??? i think puti are more sweet rather than the pinoy... blink.gif unsure.gif
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Posted 18 May 2010 - 03:30 AM

QUOTE (godsgift @ May 17 2010, 10:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
dont think sooo... if soo then why we filipinas looking for puti to marry...??? i think puti are more sweet rather than the pinoy... blink.gif unsure.gif



Ma'am, I think Carisse is referring The high ratio of divorce is not because women want to have fun. They are tired of being taken for granted and under appreciated. to the women with colors and not. That women nowadays are more aware, more mature, more independent than those in the last decade. And, that they will not give a s*** anymore putting up with someone who doesn't even appreciate a single thing.

Especially, if you live here in the United States were you can almost wanted to do all the things you've never done in the Philippines, by choice.

Yes, divorce records are increasing everyday. Puti are marrying Filipinas in which white men has each reasons only them knew. Whether you're a Filipina or not if marriage between two doesn't work anymore then divorce would be the final destination of everything, but you don't have to be worried about it if you know that there's something solid in your relationship.

Good luck to you!

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Posted 18 May 2010 - 03:46 AM

QUOTE (lovetells @ May 18 2010, 03:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ma'am, I think Carisse is referring The high ratio of divorce is not because women want to have fun. They are tired of being taken for granted and under appreciated. to the women with colors and not. That women nowadays are more aware, more mature, more independent than those in the last decade. And, that they will not give a s*** anymore putting up with someone who doesn't even appreciate a single thing.

Especially, if you live here in the United States were you can almost wanted to do all the things you've never done in the Philippines, by choice.

Yes, divorce records are increasing everyday. Puti are marrying Filipinas in which white men has each reasons only them knew. Whether you're a Filipina or not if marriage between two doesn't work anymore then divorce would be the final destination of everything, but you don't have to be worried about it if you know that there's something solid in your relationship.

Good luck to you!

yeah lovetells, sorry coz i am only referring to filipinas and puti... but u know i am curious too... do u think its the fault too sometimes of the puti females...? bcoz they are liberated, and sex for them is nothing... i saw some sites here online even still married they are looking for other man/woman.... and most that i encountered pinays who got married to a puti had a bad past relationship with their last partner... sigh... unsure.gif unsure.gif unsure.gif
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Posted 24 June 2010 - 04:59 PM

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In the last couple days I've met online a couple of filipinas in their mid to late 20s with two children and never married.

I'm not asking here about or passing any kind of moral judgement on having children outside of marriage. Guilty there myself long ago.

What I'm curious about is wouldn't that almost Americanized attitude (multiple kids, never married) kind of lead you to believe that they might also lack the traditional marital values most western men come to the philippines seeking in a wife?

Again, this post isn't about moral judement/condemnation so please don't flame me out. I just wonder if they would still make a good traditional wife, when they seem to have left tradition behind by living with a guy for years and having kids without marriage.

On the other hand, if there is a stigma associated with it, and you truly love and accept them anyway perhaps they would make a GREAT wife.

Your thoughts please.


dear they are those who involved in a relationship at young age or ARE FOOLED BY FILIPINO MEN...

yeah we dont have to demoralize them since we dont know what they have been through.. i suggest you have to know her more and dig the situation..

anyways, i am quite sure she could be a good wife... filipinas are good wives..

although i dont have a wife yet but my girlfriend is soooooooo sweet and i wont ever hurt nor leave her..




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Posted 14 September 2011 - 03:22 PM

why would you go half way around the world to get what you can get here in the states.
plenty of women with baby's daddies in your local neighborhood.

a woman that is unmarried and has kids in the phils is off the rails, unless if she was raped.
there are to many good girls in the phils, to just settle for seconds or thirds.
many of the girls that i knew in the phils that had kids and not married, worked in the bars.

makes me wonder why any man would even consider such a thing. <img src="http://www.theworldo..._DIR#>/huh.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":huh:" border="0" alt="huh.gif" />


I know judah has been banned but didn't someone recently post a news story saying that according to the respective nations Census Bureaus in 2007 38% of Filipino live births were to single mothers and in 2008 40% of American live births were to single mothers. Sounds like a margin of error difference only to me.

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Posted 14 September 2011 - 03:45 PM

I know judah has been banned but didn't someone recently post a news story saying that according to the respective nations Census Bureaus in 2007 38% of Filipino live births were to single mothers and in 2008 40% of American live births were to single mothers. Sounds like a margin of error difference only to me.

You are right but I think the intent of that post was simply to insult some of the members and stir the pot. In any case, you need to know more about the individual than some stereotypical categorization. Diamonds and gold are often found mixed with dirt. :D

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