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#1 lcole

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 05:16 PM

Who among you here caught their man looking at hotties sometimes?
I of course don't let it ruin the relationship but you know at some point its irritating laugh.gif
Girls how do you handle it?

Edited by lcole, 15 May 2008 - 05:44 PM.


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Posted 15 May 2008 - 05:48 PM

QUOTE(lcole @ May 15 2008, 05:16 PM) View Post
Who among you here caught their man looking at hotties sometimes?
I of course don't let it ruin the relationship but you know at some point its irritating laugh.gif
Girls how do you handle it?
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Icole, my husband ask this question too...what do i do when everyone looking at her. hahahha his funny. He said sorry if other guys does that. By the way i cant tell you any answer of your question becuase my husband never does that. We always together since we meet and he never do that. I have one friend also she ask the same question, shes in England right now. And when i talk to my friend my husband youngest son is asking me what my friend said. And i told him about the same question that you have. and this is his answer.... if he got a woman that he think he will gonna go get married why look for another girl while i got the best.
A man who look for another girl is so dumb. Why choose or take a girl that your not sure if shes hot or not. and still looking.

And of course he made a joke at the end... that if his dad do that his dad is dumb also. Why look for second best while you got the best. But anyway i think its not for us girls problem. Sometimes a guy feel the same way also maybe ask the same question. when they notice somebody stare at thier girl they might get jealous also. It defends sometimes proud maybe i hope so.

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 05:51 PM

Where I come from there is a saying:

"Beauty is something to be appreciated" smile.gif

As long as he respects you and is just looking, it should not be a problem. smile.gif

Are you sure he is not doing it to tease you? wink.gif
Maybe he likes when you get a little jelly, I do. smile.gif

Perhaps he is looking to realize even more how fortunate he is. wink.gif

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ps. We also have a way when she counter attacks by appreciating a good looking guy. We say: "too good looking must be gay" laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 06:24 PM

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if he got a woman that he think he will gonna go get married why look for another girl while i got the best.
A man who look for another girl is so dumb. Why choose or take a girl that your not sure if shes hot or not. and still looking.


Nah it is NOT the question if He is DUMB because he looks at the hottie who passes by .
and it is NOT the question if he did not get the best woman of his life. simply because we are human and we have eyes; and they are male. laugh.gif laugh.gif

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 06:41 PM

QUOTE(LornaDoone @ May 15 2008, 06:24 PM) View Post
Nah it is NOT the question if He is DUMB because he looks at the hottie who passes by .
and it is NOT the question if he did not get the best woman of his life. simply because we are human and we have eyes; and they are male. laugh.gif laugh.gif


i think you're right lorna. I shouldn't be ##### off the next time he will do that. I just realized that he is indeed a human being having eyes as windows to the world. One more thing I realized is that i also turn my head to handsome guys/beautiful girls sometimes unintentionally. anyway thanks for the insights. smile.gif
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Posted 15 May 2008 - 06:55 PM

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Who among you here caught their man looking at hotties sometimes?
I of course don't let it ruin the relationship but you know at some point its irritating
Girls how do you handle it?


How I gonna handle WHEN i caught my man ?

I will laugh at him and say WOw! isn't SHE so HOT ?? laugh.gif tongue.gif

Edited by LornaDoone, 15 May 2008 - 07:00 PM.

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 07:01 PM

QUOTE(LornaDoone @ May 15 2008, 08:55 AM) View Post
How I gonna handle WHEN i caught my man ?

I will laugh at him and say WOw! isn't SHE so HOT ?? laugh.gif tongue.gif


laugh.gif I can relate with you, Lorn. I used to say that to my husband, esp. when we're at the beach.

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 07:05 PM

QUOTE(LornaDoone @ May 15 2008, 06:24 PM) View Post
Nah it is NOT the question if He is DUMB because he looks at the hottie who passes by .
and it is NOT the question if he did not get the best woman of his life. simply because we are human and we have eyes; and they are male. laugh.gif laugh.gif


i agree with lorna.IMO,a man or woman who would say that there's no pretty/handsome/hotties around is a complete liar.Of course,pretty women and cute guys are everywhere,its just a matter of how you handle it.It's just like looking at a gorgeous picture on the wall...By all means,look at it as long as you want but don't touch it. wink.gif wink.gif

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 07:09 PM

QUOTE(Mrs Lewman @ May 15 2008, 05:48 PM) View Post
Icole, my husband ask this question too...what do i do when everyone looking at her. hahahha his funny. He said sorry if other guys does that. By the way i cant tell you any answer of your question becuase my husband never does that. We always together since we meet and he never do that. I have one friend also she ask the same question, shes in England right now. And when i talk to my friend my husband youngest son is asking me what my friend said. And i told him about the same question that you have. and this is his answer.... if he got a woman that he think he will gonna go get married why look for another girl while i got the best.
A man who look for another girl is so dumb. Why choose or take a girl that your not sure if shes hot or not. and still looking.

And of course he made a joke at the end... that if his dad do that his dad is dumb also. Why look for second best while you got the best. But anyway i think its not for us girls problem. Sometimes a guy feel the same way also maybe ask the same question. when they notice somebody stare at thier girl they might get jealous also. It defends sometimes proud maybe i hope so.



I'm sorry Mrs. Lewman. Maybe i better use the term "staring". Should i consider him dumb because i caught him staring at hotties sometimes? Hehehe. I don't of course discount the fact that maybe everything is just in my imagination because when we are together side by side I always let my peripheral vision work and pretend that I'm not aware of what he is doing. He said that I shouldn't accused him of staring at hotties because my basis is just the movement that i see in my peripheral vision when I don't know exactly where or what he is looking at. Maybe the problem is about me being very possessive. I just love him too much. I'm sure of that. hehehe
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Posted 15 May 2008 - 07:17 PM

QUOTE(jeanmarie23 @ May 15 2008, 07:05 PM) View Post
i agree with lorna.IMO,a man or woman who would say that there's no pretty/handsome/hotties around is a complete liar.Of course,pretty women and cute guys are everywhere,its just a matter of how you handle it.It's just like looking at a gorgeous picture on the wall...By all means,look at it as long as you want but don't touch it. wink.gif wink.gif


By all means,look at it as long as you want but don't touch it. wink.gif wink.gif or else there will be world war IV hahaha
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Posted 15 May 2008 - 07:59 PM

QUOTE(lcole @ May 15 2008, 03:17 PM) View Post
By all means,look at it as long as you want but don't touch it. wink.gif wink.gif or else there will be world war IV hahaha



right..let your crush feeling die..it will die in time.... rolleyes.gif


Edited by LornaDoone, 15 May 2008 - 08:11 PM.

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 08:37 PM

QUOTE(LornaDoone @ May 15 2008, 06:24 PM) View Post
Nah it is NOT the question if He is DUMB because he looks at the hottie who passes by .
and it is NOT the question if he did not get the best woman of his life. simply because we are human and we have eyes; and they are male. laugh.gif laugh.gif

Good Job Lorn hahahahha you got it. My husband says woman is the eye candy of a man.

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 08:46 PM

QUOTE(lcole @ May 15 2008, 07:09 PM) View Post
I'm sorry Mrs. Lewman. Maybe i better use the term "staring". Should i consider him dumb because i caught him staring at hotties sometimes? Hehehe. I don't of course discount the fact that maybe everything is just in my imagination because when we are together side by side I always let my peripheral vision work and pretend that I'm not aware of what he is doing. He said that I shouldn't accused him of staring at hotties because my basis is just the movement that i see in my peripheral vision when I don't know exactly where or what he is looking at. Maybe the problem is about me being very possessive. I just love him too much. I'm sure of that. hehehe

Hahahhahahaha. Maybe {lol} joke. Seriously maybe your just paranoid...trust your husband he will not choose you if he dont love you. Jelly is good but sometimes it bring up arguement and hurt each other feelings. So next time you see him stared at other hotties ask him what he like about that girl. He will embarrash and maybe he will not do it again. If my husband will do it i will say what part of her body do you like the most... And if he said his not looking to her. I will answer my own question and say i like her boobs hahahahhaha.


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Posted 15 May 2008 - 09:27 PM

QUOTE(lcole @ May 15 2008, 05:16 PM) View Post
Who among you here caught their man looking at hotties sometimes?
I of course don't let it ruin the relationship but you know at some point its irritating laugh.gif
Girls how do you handle it?


My loving husband loves to stare at "hotties" whenever he sees one. I don't have a major malfunction or whatsoever as I take it as a compliment for myself. It's just goes to show that he's married to a real hottie...LOL!

Edited by Mrs_Tee, 15 May 2008 - 10:10 PM.


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Posted 15 May 2008 - 10:09 PM

QUOTE(Mrs Lewman @ May 15 2008, 04:37 PM) View Post
Good Job Lorn hahahahha you got it. My husband says woman is the eye candy of a man.



also, Men are eye candy for the Women. tongue.gif
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Posted 15 May 2008 - 10:37 PM

QUOTE(LornaDoone @ May 15 2008, 03:09 PM) View Post
also, Men are eye candy for the Women. tongue.gif



what kind of candy lorn? lollipop? popsicle? hmmm slurrrppp! yummy! hehe joke joke joke!!!

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 10:47 PM

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My loving husband loves to stare at "hotties" whenever he sees one. I don't have a major malfunction or whatsoever as I take it as a compliment for myself. It's just goes to show that he's married to a real hottie...LOL!


You nailed it, Tess! High five! I feel the same way too! We rock!

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:22 PM

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You nailed it, Tess! High five! I feel the same way too! We rock!


Yep Prince....indeed, Bisayan women rock! LOL!

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:57 PM

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what kind of candy lorn? lollipop? popsicle? hmmm slurrrppp! yummy! hehe joke joke joke!!!



HOT Men are eye candy for Women !




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My loving husband loves to stare at "hotties" whenever he sees one. I don't have a major malfunction or whatsoever as I take it as a compliment for myself. It's just goes to show that he's married to a real hottie...LOL!


No doubt, our OWN husbands are indeed hotties as well as the wives. biggrin.gif

Edited by LornaDoone, 16 May 2008 - 12:10 AM.

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Posted 16 May 2008 - 12:24 AM

QUOTE(LornaDoone @ May 15 2008, 06:55 PM) View Post
How I gonna handle WHEN i caught my man ?

I will laugh at him and say WOw! isn't SHE so HOT ?? laugh.gif tongue.gif



Bravo Lorns...Same thing that I will do too! I love looking beautiful creatures esp.boobs and butt of women.So what I am gonna do? YOU CAN JOIN HIM!
In a relationship your man doesn't want a wife only ,,sometimes he needs a buddy and a best friend.So why not be his best friend.I am so sure he will love you more!

One time I bring my hubby to one of the streapies bar in cebu.He was hesitant and find it weird for a filipina to do that.But I told him I have not been there before and I want to see a hot lady dancing naked.So we went there.And I enjoyed more than him.Actually it was a test for him if he is really sincere and his heart is all mine.And I was successful,while I was having fun looking those ladies on the stage he has having fun looking at me and he was smiling looking at his cute wifey clapping my hands for those hottie girls.

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