Have you read any of your bf's replies yet? He said you're only his "good friend" and a "chatmate". So i guess you're thinking too far ahead here about marriage and all. I hate to burst your bubble but you need to wake up and keep your eyes open. I don't know what he told you but it seems like you both are NOT on the same page on this "relationship" that you're talking about. Seems like it's easier for him to fool a young woman with less experience in relationships. Are you really sure he's the one you want to marry?
Anyway, like i said, keep your eyes open and don't be in such a hurry to enter into any kind of relationship until you know the guy so well. Sometimes we need to keep our guards up too. Especially to someone we haven't met in person yet.
I hope kira would read angel's reply. I understand Kira's side. We think she is too immature for her age and too young to get married or to enter this kind of relationship "18 yrs old girl fall in love to 58 Y.O. foreigner man" To my curiosity i viewed John's FB the lil boy is very cute and he is still writing comment to his son's mother. I think, there is a chance for them to fix the problem... ( maybe John thought that his gf chatting with her ex- chatmates before coz she was always online; she has own laptop. They are on LDR so very sensitive. I believe his son's moher chatting with her chatmates but the question is: Is she flirting? but she is still wrong even if she is not flirting with her chatmates. she should avoid chatting with them IT'S RUDE and the best way for her to do delete all those ex-chatmates and blocked them I don't blame John if he felt that way, he felt doubts about something. OR MAYBE, the girl was flirting and cheat on John; I DO NOT KNOW. this is not my concern
Kira, you are pretty and young we are concern about you. We do not command your bf (good friend) to stay away from you. pls listen sweetie, Your bf will be living in Philippines. He has son with other filipina, surely he will spend time with his son and obviously the mother will be the chaperon of his own son, are you aware of this situation?? And i guess the mother would do something to win John's heart again... to complete the family. It's complicated for you kira. I read all your replies, your immaturity is showing. I am glad that you are sharing bible verses here that means you got time to read bible - keep doing it.
I can compare yourself to a story that the mother warned her daughter not to attend the night party, because the mother knew it was not safe for her daughter to go to a night party alone. But the daughter explained to her mom; there is nothing wrong with it. It is just a party! talking with friends, eat and i don't drink liquors. The daughter did not get the point and she escaped. In the next morning, her dead body was found. She was a victim of a gang rape. The point was, her mother knew what is good for her daughter but the teen-ager daughter did not get the point.
I don't see nothing wrong with you, it is just YOUR IMMATURITY IS SHOWING! Number 1 proof, your picture in the net cafe was showing your immaturity. Need guidance.
I do not question your loyalty to him, but it is just complicated... maybe you could tell him -
Everyone tells me I should forget about you, you don’t deserve me. They’re right, you don’t deserve me, but I deserve you.
Edited by menchie, 06 December 2010 - 12:09 AM.