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#1 'my_destiny'

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 07:34 AM

HI ka-members!
I just want to share to you about the experienced of my friend who met her online friend personally last 2 weeks ago. She said it was a wierd meeting. And I agreed with her.

She told me that she met this guy in Makati..and she said that it was like an interview thing because the guy were holding all the printed profiles of all the girls he is going to meet here. So, her profile was among them. ohmy.gif The guy wants to make sure that what was written on those profile are correct and asked her those questions from her profile. I asked if nakita nya yung ibang girls that he is going to meet. Sabi nya,hindi because he talked to them one by one or by schedule. blink.gif Then, after he stayed here in Manila for 2 days, he went to Cebu to met again those girls that he met in Filipina Heart. Then, on his last day here in PI, he called my friend and they met again and sya yung naghatid sa kanya sa airport and he told her that he likes her. She want me to check this guy profile on that site, sabi ko, I cant kasi im not a member of that site and dont plan to join there tongue.gif . My friend said that this guy looks like a high profile person and then he told her what happend sa meeting nya with other girls.

I told my friend not too give too much trust to this guy, even he told her about those meeting with other girls or better find a good guy with no hidden agenda. I also told her that if he really likes her, he will only come here for her only and not with others as if this guy want to buy things as "buy one take one" -or visit the Philipines, once but meet a lot of girls. dry.gif

Im just lucky and glad that my fiance went her only for me and spent his whole time being with me, thats makes me proud of!


Edited by my_destiny, 08 December 2006 - 07:44 AM.


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Posted 08 December 2006 - 01:34 PM

I would say she should just consider him to be some boy that she met and 'went out for cofee with' (or dinner, or whatever. Nothing big. If he likes her he can correspond with her and maybe if things go well in the future he will visit just for her.

It is strange that he did not correspond with her before this meeting. Or maybe he did?

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 07:09 PM

QUOTE(my_destiny @ Dec 7 2006, 09:34 PM) View Post

HI ka-members!
I just want to share to you about the experienced of my friend who met her online friend personally last 2 weeks ago. She said it was a wierd meeting. And I agreed with her.

She told me that she met this guy in Makati..and she said that it was like an interview thing because the guy were holding all the printed profiles of all the girls he is going to meet here. So, her profile was among them. ohmy.gif The guy wants to make sure that what was written on those profile are correct and asked her those questions from her profile. I asked if nakita nya yung ibang girls that he is going to meet. Sabi nya,hindi because he talked to them one by one or by schedule. blink.gif Then, after he stayed here in Manila for 2 days, he went to Cebu to met again those girls that he met in Filipina Heart. Then, on his last day here in PI, he called my friend and they met again and sya yung naghatid sa kanya sa airport and he told her that he likes her. She want me to check this guy profile on that site, sabi ko, I cant kasi im not a member of that site and dont plan to join there tongue.gif . My friend said that this guy looks like a high profile person and then he told her what happend sa meeting nya with other girls.

I told my friend not too give too much trust to this guy, even he told her about those meeting with other girls or better find a good guy with no hidden agenda. I also told her that if he really likes her, he will only come here for her only and not with others as if this guy want to buy things as "buy one take one" -or visit the Philipines, once but meet a lot of girls. dry.gif

Im just lucky and glad that my fiance went her only for me and spent his whole time being with me, thats makes me proud of!
The guy was pushing a shopping cart with a grocery list in his hand! Sounds like he's better than some guys that line up a bunch of pinay online and go there and try to poke them all and then go home to their puti wifes!
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Posted 08 December 2006 - 09:37 PM

QUOTE(Ampalaya @ Dec 8 2006, 02:09 PM) View Post

The guy was pushing a shopping cart with a grocery list in his hand! Sounds like he's better than some guys that line up a bunch of pinay online and go there and try to poke them all and then go home to their puti wifes!
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I agree about the grocery list! Looks very much like he's only interested in what he's buying. Your friend should have asked him if he planned to use any discount coupons for his purchase!

That guy will find what he's looking for, a woman who matches his list & wants a Visa bad enough to put up with him. Bad news for him, once she's got the Visa, he'll find out that HE doesn't match HER list !

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 10:08 PM

Yeah, this guy seems a bit sketchy at best.

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Posted 09 December 2006 - 04:07 AM

Yeah..you are all right.
Before they met here, they were corresponding, but my friend didnt know that he will meet other girls too here. She thought that she is the only one that is why she was shocked ohmy.gif

It will not be good for her if the guy decided to visit here again next time and will meet other girls too wink.gif
It will be just ok if he didnt sleep with those girls, just only meeting them.


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Posted 09 December 2006 - 05:32 AM

That is so sad but I heard this before in Asawa.org and the guys defended themselves thinking their actions were morale and right. I think it is sad and so unfair to a honest Filipina that was corresponding with him thinking she was the only one. Yes I know there are some bad apples as there are here and that is what a relationship built on allot of good communication usually uncovers should deceipt exist. I get depressed thinking about the poor girls on the list having to go against each other as if it were a contest and probably not even knowing the contest was happening. mad.gif

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Posted 10 December 2006 - 02:17 PM

Me and my friends just met this afternoon at one of our friend's daughter christianing. She told me that this guy was asking what class in the society she belongs too and he said that he might come to Vietnam next year. We suggested to her that she must wish him luck to his search and tell him that she is corresponding someone already so that he will not bother her anymore. This guy have lots of concern and we viewed it as not good if ever they will have relationship.



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Posted 12 December 2006 - 06:25 AM

I agree with the others' opinion here. The guy is making girl shopping at Filipinaheart. He's one of the guys who doesn't deserve a second look. I have met Jack, my fiance, in Filipinaheart also, and I could say that there are hundreds of men there who are just playing around, and girls should be careful in chatting with them. Honesty begets honesty, but many times many of these men aren't really honest. The fact that he had visited the Philippines to meet several girls, only meant that he was not serious in his search. I have read somewhere that men like him just come to the philippines for Sex vacations, and then go home to their "puti wives" as what Jack (Ampalaya) here said.

So our advice to your friend, she should block him so that he couldn't communicate with her anymore. Many problems will crop up if she continues to correspond to such a man.. I wish her luck to her further search. The Lord will guide her and she'll find her partner in the process, just what we have experienced..
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Posted 12 December 2006 - 07:44 AM

I agree with the whole shopping cart mentality being said here. More than likely this guy got the idea from CherryBlossoms which sets up such tours precisely like the one he apparently did on his own. blink.gif
I also wonder what self-respecting girl, lady, woman or person would wish to be considered a "tour girl?"

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Posted 12 December 2006 - 12:12 PM

QUOTE(Himaya Ko @ Dec 12 2006, 03:44 PM) View Post

I agree with the whole shopping cart mentality being said here. More than likely this guy got the idea from CherryBlossoms which sets up such tours precisely like the one he apparently did on his own. blink.gif
I also wonder what self-respecting girl, lady, woman or person would wish to be considered a "tour girl?"


Yeah, she said that this guy is immature and for sure, will not be a good partner, husband, bestfriend in the future and time for her to search again for a better guy. I told her to join WOF because she will learn a lot from here.


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Posted 08 January 2007 - 02:34 AM

On my way to Ichero, Korea to get to Manila my knees were starting to hurt so I got up to walk around. I met this guy and we started to talk because we were the only white people on the plane lol. He told me he is going to Korea to meet five women and whoever was the best he would be interested in a long term relationship.

In my mind I thought what a pig! This guy is going to give American men a bad rap. But on the other hand what kind of women would be willing to be with a man if he is going to meet them all in the airport and which ever performs better sexually he would be interested in knowing more? So this guy may meet someone just like him perhaps and they both can be miserable. Maybe some women here could give me some insight into why a woman would do this if I am wrong?

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Posted 08 January 2007 - 07:47 AM

QUOTE(The Love Chapter @ Jan 8 2007, 02:34 AM) View Post

On my way to Ichero, Korea to get to Manila my knees were starting to hurt so I got up to walk around. I met this guy and we started to talk because we were the only white people on the plane lol. He told me he is going to Korea to meet five women and whoever was the best he would be interested in a long term relationship.

In my mind I thought what a pig! This guy is going to give American men a bad rap. But on the other hand what kind of women would be willing to be with a man if he is going to meet them all in the airport and which ever performs better sexually he would be interested in knowing more? So this guy may meet someone just like him perhaps and they both can be miserable. Maybe some women here could give me some insight into why a woman would do this if I am wrong?




Hi the love chapter,

In my own humble opinion & perspective in life I would say that most of the girls who are involved in such setting are unaware of the true scenario that they are into. The guy might have said a lot of flowery words or promises such that each of them believe that she is the only one being worshiped by him. Without her knowledge that there are many of them in a row. Well, a normal girl, a girl who is uprooted from a familywithstrong moral values will not compromise herself on that. She would never let her dignity & reputation be stained with such a "pig" man's doing.

On the other side of the story,I also believe that there are few girls who are 100% aware of the real score of the relationship. Money or having a chance to have him as a visa to the US (good for that American) is the number 1 reason for doing such! No more, no less. And this girl is no other than one of the girls who are just playing around in the net. A scammer, the one greedy for money & material stuffs. They are looking for a "fat' prey that they can be taken advantage of.

It is just sad to note that there are a lot of real & sincere men or women in the net, who are whole-heartedly seeking for their love of their life, who became a victim of the powerful claws of these "people without hearts".

In your example, that American will give all the Americans a bad notion & the girls ( with 100% knowledge on the setting) will also give a bad reputation to whatever race they are representing.

Just my 1 peso... laugh.gif Other members here can enlighten you more on this regard.



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Posted 08 January 2007 - 08:03 AM

Actually, all the decisions still lies on your hand no matter what because if you will just let yourselves to be use with somebody else then they will really grab that chance. So better know the person very well before making the move...

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Posted 14 January 2007 - 12:37 PM

So she met a guy with alot of girls profile on his hand? what do you think is he doing playing cards??? choosing the best out of it? dry.gif ....im sorry i know i dont know him personally, but a guy like that is very suspicious & well you dont just pin point to a girl you like like buying some cany in the store, girls deserve to be respected....not like picking up flowers....well she shouldn't trust him right away....1st, be aware of what his intentions are,then is it looks very suspicious....forget it, the right guy will come at the right time...just wait & never loose hope wink.gif

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Posted 07 February 2007 - 03:25 PM

I think you're being a bit hard on this guy. But then if he's going to visit a big list of girls he needs to be honest up front and not let the girl's believe she's the only one he's visiting.
How many times have guys that were going over, only to have the relationship break up before they left, be told to go still and see if they meet someone? How long had this girl been communicating with this guy? Was it only wishful thinking on her part that this might be exclusive?
I didn't see anything written here that said the guy came for anything more than to meet her as a friend. Not to stay with her the whole time.
You're all taking just one point of view without considering other things going on here. There's a lot worse things than going to meet some friends you made in another country hoping there will be a spark found with one. This guy could have been burned by scammers before and making darned sure he doesn't again. Refusing to invest himself emotionally until he knows the girl in person.

There are plenty of guys going over there declaring love, when all they're planning is to get sex and then take off for good. My gf's sister ran into one of those, but thankfully she took our advice and didn't go meet him. But she wanted to believe so badly this was her chance to meet a good man she was hard to convince that it wasn't the right situation.

I'd say this girl should use caution about this guy. He obviously will not commit easily and she should guard emotions the same way. But don't discard him just because he wanted to meet the girls he was talking with before he moved further into any relationship.

You're all sounding like unless the guy is coming with the ring and a proposal they should not even consider going over. This guy didn't sound to me like someone who came over to hurt anyone. Just someone who is being careful before he gives out his heart. then again, he still might be a jerk rolleyes.gif


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Posted 07 February 2007 - 06:31 PM

Well,

I got to say I thought the man was shopping for a wife. Going to meet a bunch of girls and interview them before he fianlly "buys" into one. Planning another trip to a possible second country to meet more women, not much else needs to be said about him.

Its sad, and all I can say is I hope any girl he meets runs away.
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Posted 07 February 2007 - 08:18 PM

QUOTE(my_destiny @ Dec 7 2006, 11:34 PM) View Post
She told me that she met this guy in Makati..and she said that it was like an interview thing because the guy were holding all the printed profiles of all the girls he is going to meet here. So, her profile was among them. ohmy.gif The guy wants to make sure that what was written on those profile are correct and asked her those questions from her profile. I asked if nakita nya yung ibang girls that he is going to meet. Sabi nya,hindi because he talked to them one by one or by schedule.


If I'm in her situation, on our first meeting I'll tell him not to include me in his shopping, walk out and will not bother to talk to him anymore. Tell her not to feel bad about it. It's a good learning experience for her, it's nice that she knew the guy's true color before she got involve to him deeply. She need to be careful next time . Make it sure that she's the only one woman in the guy's life.

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Posted 07 February 2007 - 09:06 PM

QUOTE(my_destiny @ Dec 7 2006, 11:34 PM) View Post
...She told me that she met this guy in Makati..and she said that it was like an interview thing because the guy were holding all the printed profiles of all the girls he is going to meet here. So, her profile was among them. ohmy.gif The guy wants to make sure that what was written on those profile are correct and asked her those questions from her profile. ...

What a dork! Has to be the mark of a rookie because anyone with even the tiniest bit of dating experience is not going to bring along and expose his ‘shopping list’ – I don’t care where you’re from! I stayed at Swagman’s once in Ermita and was within earshot of a guy who must have bussed down from the province the entire family of a prospective wife. An interview it was! How utterly lame!!!

Otoh, The very means of browsing a matchmaking sight implies you are ‘shopping’ no matter how you look at it. The only difference is that you are doing it in the confines of your home.

I personally didn’t have a problem hooking up with more than one person and nor did my wife because she approached it the same way. It will work and no one will get hurt if you treat it merely as a means to hook up (you know, like a date) and not get all engrossed in the lovey-dovey stuff before you even meet. Just keep your shopping list at home… or at least in your pocket…


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Posted 09 February 2007 - 03:54 PM

Hello...for the update about my friend's case.
She is somewhat excited because this guy will be coming back this 2nd week of March to meet her again..and only her. I told her to join this site,she said that she will soon. I asked her if this guy will only meet her and not meet others like he did the first time he went here. She is confident that this guy will not meet any girls because he give to her his schedule and his iterinary for the flight. She just booked a hotel for them so I guess or I hope everything will turn ok after this.

Maybe, among the shopping list..He find my friend is one of the best items to have or best ingredients. tongue.gif





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